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Anxiety at night: a programme for anxiety and thoughts that rise after dark

Written by a clinical psychologist

Calm Anxiety is a short-session psychoeducation programme for coping with anxiety at night: why anxiety gets louder after dark, giving worry a place outside the bed and trying not to fight wakefulness. It is not an insomnia treatment and does not promise sleep.

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If one of these sentences is yours

  • "As soon as I get into bed my mind starts working; everything I didn’t think of all day arrives."
  • "I check the clock and work out how many hours are left if I fall asleep now, and I get even tenser."
  • "After a bad night I spend the next day anxious too."

Sentences we hear often; not user reviews.

What is inside

The deepening module on night and anxiety is 7 sessions and takes its place in your journey according to your answers; supporting skills such as a worry time and an attention anchor come from the foundation modules. The programme has 16 modules and 112 guided sessions in all.

Topics covered in this section

  • Why does anxiety get louder at night?

    Understanding why thoughts can come more loudly once the distractions of the day fall away.

  • A short sleep note

    A non-judgemental look at your sleep pattern; not a new rule, an observation.

  • One steady rise time

    Considering, as an experiment, fixing only the time you get up, without forcing bedtime.

  • Making room for worry before sleep

    Placing the worry slot a few hours before bed and giving a worry that comes in bed a one-line address.

  • When I’m awake in bed

    Seeing the flip side of trying to sleep and testing, with a small trial, not fighting wakefulness in bed.

  • The day after a rough night

    Knowing how you can treat yourself the day after a rough night, and when to ask for help.

A sample step from the programme: paper by the bed

If a worry comes while you are in bed, you do not have to solve it or suppress it; giving it an address can be enough. This step tests whether every worry needs an answer in the middle of the night; it makes no promise that sleep will come.

  1. Keep paper and a pen by the bed (not a screen, and without turning on a bright light). If a worry comes in the night, write one line: “I’ll think about this tomorrow at …”. Then put the paper down and return to bed.

If writing makes the worry grow, or it has become a new job, stop. If the thoughts that come at night frighten you a great deal or include thoughts of harming yourself, contact a mental health professional and your local emergency number. If you have chest pain, shortness of breath or a feeling of fainting at night, that is a health matter, not a sleep matter: see a doctor right away or call your local emergency number.

Shortened from the “Making Room for Worry Before Sleep” session in the app (module: Anxiety at Night).

How the programme works

  1. A short assessment

    You answer what you would like to work on and how anxiety affects your sleep; if sleep stands out, the Anxiety at Night module takes its place in your journey. The result is not a diagnosis. You can skip any question.

  2. Foundation first, then the night

    Skills such as a worry time and an attention anchor are set up in the foundation modules; the night module adds a sleep-specific angle to the same skills. You do not have to learn a new method.

  3. In your browser, at your pace

    Calm Anxiety opens in your browser. An account is needed only to subscribe, or to use your subscription in the browser; Calm Now asks for none. Your journal and answers are stored only on your device.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why does anxiety get worse at night?

During the day tasks and distractions turn thoughts down; at night, with quiet and tiredness, worries can feel louder and bigger. The night module explains why and suggests giving worry a place during the day, away from the bed.

Does this programme treat insomnia?

No. It is not an insomnia treatment or a sleep-disorder programme; it is psychoeducation, it is not therapy and it does not diagnose. It does not promise sleep; the aim is to try not fighting anxiety in bed. If a sleep problem continues, see a doctor.

What should I do when I wake up in the night?

One example trial from the programme: if you notice you are restless in bed, get up without checking the clock, do something quiet and dull in dim light and go back when your eyelids feel heavy. It is a trial, not a rule; do not force it if you cannot get up safely or have limited mobility.

Do I have to restrict my sleep?

No. There is no sleep restriction in the programme. Fixing only the time you get up is described as an optional trial and does not ask you to delay or shorten the time you go to bed.

How long does it take?

The night module is 7 short sessions; the whole programme is 16 modules and 112 sessions. Progress follows steps, not dates; you can take breaks.

Is any of it free?

The Calm Now tool and the support resources are always free. The full programme needs a subscription; the options are on the pricing page.

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